Ask Mei: that was quick!

oh Wow I get some more questions to answer! I like this game. ^_^

Do you have any friends online you talk to who also have blogger? and if so who have your similar sexual interests???

Many times many actually! You can find their blog links on the bottom right side under Blogs I Follow. That number increases as time goes by.

Do we have similar interests? I think we, for the most part, are united by trans ideas. Many are cross dreamers who revel in the fantastical powers of tg captions. Others are front line ladyboy soldiers like me who are planting our trans seeds so we can grow like flowers.

Each and every blogger in the community, be they creative or chronicling, slutty or chaste, activist or hiding, dreamer or trans, each is important. I dislike the lines that are drawn between us.

Sexually, which I now realize is what you asked... I'd say for the most part yes. There are some Queens who differ in some ways, such as the all-powerful Goddess Simone but many are soft and pliable like me. I have noticed a startling trend among our kind, that we maybe have a taste for big gorgeous black men. That is not to say that all men aren't gorgeous, but you can see the trend without much digging.

If you found a magic lamp and a genie appears and can grant you 3 wishes, what would they be?

That is a fun question! I have so much difficulty choosing favourite music, movies, colours, men. There are just so many flavours to consume it will never end!

1. I would wish upon a genie true that I could be a ladyboy like my soul demands, a ladyboy, Asian through and through. I do not require being a woman, it is not my way. I am a fabulous ladyboy and that is, from my perspective, just perfect, right, natural, and he doesn't tell you but your boyfriend likes me better this way.

Number the two!

2. I wish to be exceedingly wealthy, sure blame me for going cliche. But I have responsibles to my baby daughter, to her Mother, and to my family anyway. Let's be fair, I crave to have shoes and bling and Sex in the City enviable wardrobe! But despite my carnal fashionisms it is my family that must be safe financially most of all.

I come from poor, happy ghetto fab, but it makes it tricky now. I need a lot of money to get my body so I don't go crazy, but I have no way of how... I wish upon shooting stars a man will come and save me, but there is no shining knight it is just the bling on my wrist that I have.

Thrice wish!

3. I'm fabulous and I wish the world to know. I have a good blog, I have years experience in media, yet it is tough to break in and without even a penny left after paycheck my tv shows and the writers who rely on me are collecting dust.

The world doesn't even know how amazing what we've written is, and that breaks my heart. Sometimes I think about just doing a web comic just so you can read the stories, they are so good, but alas I don't even know how to draw art.

So I wish that I had the influence in media, the respect to get my work produced. From my porn, my documentary, my tv shows, my graphic novels, and all the works of those who work with me... I wish we would have that success.

I'm curious as to why Asian? Why would you transition from being a white male to an Asian female?

Oh I forgot this question would come up, so settled in the idea I already am. Yes if you've seen pics of me I'm not born Asian, why then do I feel compelled to have surgeries to look that way?

I... I don't know.. it is one of those things that is difficult to explain. It is as difficult and complicated as being trans and trying to explain that you were born in the wrong body.

I think sometimes perhaps it is a past life thing, perhaps my Soul is stamped Made in China? I do not know, but when my counsellor suggested that I should accept I cannot be I was not delighted.

I cannot. I'm sorry if we as a society are more accepting of transgender (isn't that funny that I would even write that...) than we are of transracial, but.. I really just can't give up. I feel it as true as anything else, when I look in the mirror, girl it is tough!

A friend photoshopped my face just slightly to include my eyes the way I feel they ought to be. I didn't need tons of plastic surgery or airbrushing, I just needed my eyes to look properly... it felt as congruent as having breasts and wearing a dress and it is equally important.

I believe you will see that there are many more like me, and worth exploring.

For instance I met another like me in person! What a coincidence the plastic surgeon said! He has only met two, and now we both live near to each other and she feels the same and I was so delighted. It is very good to realize there are others out there, and she had the surgeries on eyes just like I want! It is possible, I will have it and I will feel so much better wow I type a lot...

If anyone has any theories on that, formpsring them to me.