Now I'm back at work, my review didn't include any sort of salary adjustment to reflect the 3x workload I've been handling for the past 2 years since taking a new position, and they are unapologetic in the matter of the record of employment.
I'm in deep trouble and I find so much of my time is spent either at work in a state of stress or at home in a state of stress. I truly do not know how to get out of this.
Dilation helps me keep sane.
I can sympathize, hon - we were left in a similar situation when my partner had to take an extended leave from work for major surgery.
ReplyDeleteThe best advice I can offer is to talk to a financial professional. You'd be surprised at how many options are available. We did what's called a Consumer Proposal, which froze our debts (no more interest) and resulted in our creditors settling for about 30% of what's owed, to be paid over the next few years.
As for work, it gets easier with the financial stress off your back, but it might be time to start searching elsewhere.